Fairytales....

We have all seen a FAIRYTALE either in films, cartoons or even for a wedding day....but I just want to say that Fairytales do not exist and has not ever happened to anyone on this planet.
Although, I believe that if life itself was a fairytale for everyone it would be mostly perfect, a much happier place and just seems to be much easier option to live with.
I guess the life is not that easy and it will never get any easier. We do not always get what we want, and once we do  - we think to ourselves whether or not we want it, if we have the strength to commit to it. I think what makes Fairytales so different to real life is the fact that as we grow up we have to face many obstacles and not just one, at the end we do not always get a Happy Ending because everyday changes and ahead of our paths there is a sense of uncertainty which prevents us from walking into that direction.

There is one problem that everyone face and I believe that they find it rather hard to face that moment, this is moving on. Life is what it is, we cannot make decison for other people as we can only make our own decisons. If they cannot change their mind or come about to solve a problem then maybe you can be brave enough to take on the burden to move on  and change your ways of thinking.
Life changes everyday, and this can affect us either greatly and deeply or it could be a minor change however we should not fight this, we know we cannot change what has already happened. Therfore, we should learn to life with it change ourselves to the changes of the surrounding, just go with the flow, we cannot control what happens to us, what happens to people you care about. And sometimes we need to take the selfish option and think about ourselves, think about how change has affected us and what we can do about it.......how we can control ourselves in line with change. Afterall it cannot be fought against and those who try will fail.

We may not be able to merge our lives with Fairytales and ask for a Perfect World....
So, we have to stay true to ourselves, believe in ourselves because only You can make the decison, only you can control the decison you make in line with change. I guess this what makes me who I am.....
Be brave and take each day as it comes and go with the flow, do not let the minor things get to you. Don't live your life pondering around a 'What If?' stage, because if it did not happen you cannot go back and change it so let it go. Relieve yourself. Look towards the future and present but don't forget the past just remember but do not dwell upon it.....