"Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer. ~Shunryu Suzuki"Everything changes everyday,
Things change with every move we make,
Every step we take,
And we are not the ones to control that,
As we have to takes those steps in order to carry on with our lives.
Changes can vary by size, however big or small these changes can still affect the person that you are, sometimes we even learn from these changes to the effectiveness of using them to help ourselves get by.
Some changes makes us worse, depressed and even confused. Leading us feeling trapped and lost.
But, some change for the better. And if you are able to look past the change for the worst, it will not be so bad.
I moved houses many times, this resulted in moving schools, changing the surroundings and adapting to the new atmosphere; making new friends and trying to fit in. I have done this 3 times, 4 if you include University.
And I know that life cannot be undone, if we take one step forward and then take a step back it is not neccessary that we land in the exact same spot that we moved from, this is because things change....
Change happens every second, in every second somewhere in the world something changes and it cannot be undone. There is nothing you can say or do to undo a change because it has already happened.
People always say I will put my life on hold for you, but they can't, it is purely impossible to pause life, therefore when it comes to times where you think that life changed for the worst then Hold on and Keep Tight, because in the end everything always turns out okay.
There are many ways to see into your future, the most popular ways that we try to change, avoid future events from happening are from Tarot cards, daily horoscopes, fortune teller. Then again, only if you believe them. I can not say that I don't. A few years back, a friend brought a pack of tarot cards in for fun, you draw three cards representing your life of
PAST
PRESENT
FUTURE
....I do not recall my first two cards, but my third was the DEATH card.
Be aware that this card does not actually bring death; the basic meaning of this card is a big change that will happen changing your life completely.
I thought it was compelte rubbish, but thinking about it, My MUM and DAD told me that we will be moving within a months time. Therefore, it is difficult for me not to believe that the card was accurate to see into my future but I found it hard to be coincedental, Maybe it was.
But for these years that has passed, I still remember this very card that I drew about my future and still think that it cannot be such of a coicidence......
In many case, if you cannot adapt to a change however big or small that is, try to turn to another alternative and change yourself.
Then you would know that it will be for the better and not for the worse....
When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Victor Frankl
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