Today, I had to do something that is similar to stiching up or complaining, but it has a good reason behind it. If we work in teams and one tem member does not work but takes the credit it can be unfair.
I am a rather soft person, meaning that it will be hard to talk about this issue.
I did though, and I feel really bad - But it is for the best.
When I was talking to my tutor, I was close to tears and I did not know why - Fear of the member being left out, fear of awkwardness or fear of loosing a friend and making a enemy?
It is a difficult world we live in and sometimes these fears cannot control you and I will think really hard from what happened today because everyone should be Fearless.......However, every one has a fear to face the facts that they believe will hurt them emotionally, and would sometimes rather hear a lie than the truth. Fear of abuse, loosing a loved one, fear of failure or fear of confronting. There are no days that we live by without facing a fear, but we do not change them because we do not fight them. Only if we fight those fears, we will become a stonger and a more confident person. Out of the millions of people, there are many people everyday who choose to fight their fears, and there are those who choose to hide and let the feeling control them.
Not everyone has courage, I certainly don't - But for those who fight their fears each day...they are one step to becoming Fearless and one day I will be to.
Fear is a natural thing. Bravery isn't being free of fear, it is doing something even though you are afraid.
ReplyDeleteAlso if this girl can't be arsed to do any work then that's her fault, not yours. She can't expect everyone else to do it for her.